Looking for a better life

Looking for a better life

So what prompted my wife and I to get rid of all our stuff, sell our condo, quit our jobs, and decide to leave our friends and family in Toronto anyway?

Of course we wanted to escape the cold Canadian winters. Yes, we wanted to learn Spanish. But more importantly, we wanted to have a healthier lifestyle.

Despite all of its conveniences and amenities, life in the big city wasn't giving us what we needed. We were working our asses off and still drowning in debt. We were under constant stress from job pressures and environmental stresses. Deadlines, smog, road-rage... We felt like every day that went by was taking a year off our lives. Our health was suffering.

We knew the grass was greener on the other side, we just had to come up with a plan to escape. One of the keys to pulling it off was our firm commitment to each other. We did it because we loved each other too much not to do it. And once we announced to everyone that we were going for it, we didn't look back.

We're still not sure where we're going and we don't know when we'll get there, because we haven't figured everything out yet. Hell, we're just winging it as we go. But the goal is clear and attainable, though it may seem kind of vague: we're looking for a better life.

The above photo was taken at Cypress Hills Interprovincial Park, at the highest point in the Canadian prairies.

Comments

Well said!

Most people agree that city life with plus the 9-to-5 grind is usually pretty stressful and unhealthy, a few people admit that they would like a change from that, but hardly anyone overcomes their fears and actually quits their job and goes on an adventure! I respect you guys hugely for doing it!

It ain't easy

Thanks for your comment Paul. I guess most people feel like they don't have a choice or that it isn't the right time. That's how I felt for many years before actually pulling the trigger. Even after deciding to do it, P and I spent months working out the logistics, the mechanics, and finally, many days and many nights of actual WORK went into making it happen. I guess the only secret is you have to really REALLY want it. Otherwise it probably just won't happen for most people, because believe me it doesn't just happen overnight.